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Brandon was born in Ohio to a mother of Irish heritage who was fourteen years old and
living in foster care. She was very low functioning and could not take of a child.
Brandon’s father was a thirteen year old of African American heritage and lived with his
grandmother. Brandon was hospitalized three times for (failure to thrive) and was placed
in his first foster home at age one. Over the next six years, Brandon would be placed in
nine more foster homes, three hospitals for emotionally destructive children and have
nine evaluations and psychologicals performed on him. Brandon was a terror that could
not survive within a home environment. In between his foster home placements, the
agency he was placed with decided to allow his mother, now, nineteen along with his
maternal grandmother to try and raise him. Brandon was found in the backyard of his
grandmothers home emaciated and was placed in the hospital again for (failure to thrive).
At age six, Brandon’s mother gave up all rights and terminated her parental rights. He
was placed for adoption. Six months latter he was labeled (unadoptable). I heard of
Brandon through a friend that was the director of a large adoption agency and after
reading his life history, decided to fly to Ohio to meet this child. “After all, how bad
could a six year old be?”. After negotiating with the state of Ohio and Pennsylvania, I
had Brandon transferred to an agency in Philadelphia, PA. where he was then placed in
my home on a six month trial basis to evaluate the prospect of adoption.
His story begins.
Brandon’s story will eventually lead us to our final journey called “ A Family Lost”
Although this last story will not be complete until March 1999 as we will be dealing
with the Judicial system and Family court, Civil Court, Criminal Court and the Human
Resources department of the US Government. This is still ongoing and will not come to
it’s fruition until early 1999.
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